I hear so many men complaining about the unfairness of the family court system and how they usually get very little custody compared to the women.
Don't get me wrong, it is true that some family courts are making biased rulings and give women the majority of custody, but there are other factors that goes into family courts decisions and even though a man goes to a family court that is biased, if he can show that he has been a devoted father and have been majorly involved in the children's lives, then he has a good chance in receiving at least 50/50 custody.
When we had our son, I starting to be very involved and active in my son's care. Even though I was working, I started to go to work later and later every day, so I would give breakfast to my son and then leave for work; and I would come home early to prepare the dinner and feed my son. And later I was the one who took my son to pre-k school, and I cared for my son for the entire weekends. I also was involved in my son's pre-schooling, TK, Kindergarten, I attended all IEP meetings, etc.. I would spend time playing with my son and see that every smile that he makes is precious.
I'm the great believer that fathers being involved in their children's lives is essential for every child. The children need their fathers and their mothers.
Believe me, the times you spend with your child is precious, that moment that he/she smiles at you is precious, you cannot buy it for millions of dollars.
So, if you're a father that is greatly involved in your children's lives and majorly involved in raising your children, there is a good chance that if there is a divorce, you more likely get at least 50/50 custody.
